This is a diagram of how I see protracted disputes being carried out by a partnership with no Agreement Moderator to control the swing amplitude. Without it we are more likely to freeze when we think something is wrong, rather than say that
"I don't agree" or "I am not convinced" and end up in the red zone. |
The ideal would be to remain within the green area.
The orange being still acceptable but still less efficient.
When the couple hit the red area a deformation occurs
in the relationship (square)
because we fail to deal with our disagreement early enough and with the appropiate responce. |
